A New Goal

Dear Friends,

I am so excited to share a new goal I have for this month! It is to take the local train from near my house to the station near Tara’s apartment on my own. The start and end of this trip are both terminal stations, so it is a bit easier than trying to learn how to get off at a station in between because it won’t be so rushed. I will get a phone so my family can track me and I will practice using it for basic communication about where I am. I am so thrilled about this!

I have been craving more independence lately. It is not my main goal, but even small ways of doing things on my own are so empowering. I am almost in my forties. I am so yearning for dignity and respect as any adult deserves. I am longing to prove to myself that I can do more than most people assume.

Tara and our mom are helping me prepare and practice. I am so appreciating their sincere support, because I know they are nervous about this. They are working to be enthusiastic and optimistic while also practical. They understand how much this means to me.

When I share this goal with people, the common initial reaction is surprise and doubt. But also, that is often followed by encouragement and enthusiasm. The best are the people who don’t hesitate to affirm my goal. They say without any reservations: That is great and you can do it! I love that.

So I will be practicing these train trips this month. I am so proud to be trying this. I know I can do it!

Do you have any goals you are excited about? I would love to hear about them!

Your Friend,

Danny