Searching for Love

Dear Friends,

This is a bit scary for me, but I am being brave. I want to share that I am lonely romantically. It is getting me down these days.

I have mentioned my hope for romance before. But I have been too shy to say more before. I am so dreaming of a partner to love and to be loved by.

I hope to meet a speller woman close to my age (38) who is kind and funny and hopes to change the world. Someone who loves the ocean and irreverent jokes and days in the park with friends. Someone who loves dogs. Someone who dreams big. She does not need to live in San Diego or even California as I am open to a long-distance relationship.

I know it will be tough to find this person. And maybe she wouldn’t feel the same about me. I know that relationships are hard and complicated at times. And I know I still struggle to admit that I want this kind of love because I have been so marginalized in my life. But I know I need to try.

I guess I am hoping for any guidance you might have to help me find someone special. I am willing to try apps, but I don’t know if any spellers use them. I am willing to be set up on blind Zoom dates. I am willing to join more social activities to meet more spellers. Any suggestions are welcomed as long as they are kind.

I asked Tara to write a testimonial for me: “Being Danny’s sister, I am of course biased, but I am confident that he is the kindest, most considerate person I have ever met. He is outrageously funny, a gorgeous writer, and a fun adventure buddy, as well as a dedicated advocate. He is also incredibly brave, intelligent, thoughtful, and loving. Being loved by Danny in any way is a true gift that brings strength, comfort, and joy to anyone who is lucky enough to experience it. And he’s a handsome guy with a sharp sense of style!”

Thank you friends for any help you can offer. Thank you for being a safe community for me to share this vulnerable side.

Your Friend,

Danny